Good Way To Start The Day

[Wazza]

Woke up to check my email today and almost blew in my pants -






Each sale is $50 commission

Pretty sure someone ordered 10 lots so it's most likely a fluke but hey one of my biggest days yet and the day only just begun.

Last night me and the wife sat down and had a good talk about how me being on the net is ruining our relationship, making me fat and how it's taking control of my life. Kids even had a few things to say about it which really hit me hard so I agreed to pretty much give it all away because it was all true, and then I wake up to find these emails lol..

[JamesK]

Holy shit Wazza you finally got some good news!!! :P

[narres]

I hope it's not a glitch in the system and they take 9 away and leave you with only one

[Wazza]

I hope it's not a glitch in the system and they take 9 away and leave you with only one

with the luck I have had lately, I am expecting something like that to happen lol.

[NCMedia]

Check your paypal

[jimmybloggs91]

sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet...

you still going to get shut of all your sites after this?

[steady game]

I'm hoping it's legit. You've earned it.

[Wazza]

Check your paypal

HAHA YOUR A LEGEND BRO, thanks so much. Will chat soonski, haven't bothered you lately cause I know ya super busy doing your thang

jimmybloggs91[/B];]sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet...

you still going to get shut of all your sites after this?

Not giving up or being made to give up, just more realizing how much my fam is right lately and need to listen before I lose the lot.

Selling all my sites except for one or two, I have way to many to manage. I am in a very bad routine at the moment where I'm just not getting shit done even when I get on the computer - Im like a zombie to tell you the truth.

I need to spend less time online, less time dicking around and maximize the productivity when I get online. I just can't do it with the amount of sites I have, it's simply too much to worry about. I have once again made shit way more complicated than they should be plus I need to spend more time offline because it's driving me insane lol.

Fingers crossed those sales above are not a glitch(really got me thinking now narres lol)

Cheers all.

[narres]

Fingers crossed those sales above are not a glitch(really got me thinking now narres lol)

Sorry bout tat..

[Blackman]

Last night me and the wife sat down and had a good talk about how me being on the net is ruining our relationship, making me fat and how it's taking control of my life. Kids even had a few things to say about it which really hit me hard so I agreed to pretty much give it all away because it was all true, and then I wake up to find these emails lol..

Wazza, if you still haven't found a job, then I would suggest you to get your "offline life" sorted first, before you attempt anything here...

I know from personal experience that it's tough to do anything online, when you have no other income, so get a job and stable monthly earnings. This will keep your fam happy (at least for a while) and you'll feel better knowing that you have extra cash coming in.

Then do IM as "a part-time job" until it grows and grows to the level, when you can tell you wife: "SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE, I TOLD YOU I CAN DO IT".

My parents keep pushing me to "get a real job", do something "proper", so I know how hard it is for you to carry on when everyone's against you. Your belief is your only motivation, you have to do this because YOU KNOW you can make it BIG one day.

I keep recommending this guy to everyone....You've probably heard about him, but watch him AGAIN >>> Eric Thomas.

Best of luck.

[willyboy104]

Wazza,

Firstly, congratulations on making these sales - but as you mentioned it's 'most likely a fluke' - now I am not saying it won't happen again, I am pretty sure you will get more sales. HOWEVER, reading your intro thread it seems you may have other, larger - more important priorities to focus on rather than online businesses.

I am not giving you a lesson, telling you shit, or bossing you around - but we all know the web isn't going anywhere, and we all know how easy it is to lose a day sat in front of the computer, building blogs, writing articles, shooting E-mails, browsing forums and doing SEO that we sometimes forget about what is offline, our loved ones and how fast are kids are growing up.

I know it's probably not a massive issue, the wife and kids having a little rant, but let's make sure it doesn't turn in to a massive issue and perhaps instead of spending that 30 minutes a day on NC. Spend just 5 minutes a day on here, and 25 minutes with the wife and kids, I am sure they would appreciate a little more time

Maybe, take them out to play football (if they are boys...) then you hit two birds with one stone, lose weight =D and time with the kids...

Anyways, just saying bro but what do I know I am only 21.

[Vadym]

Show this to your wife and kids for me.

Good work, never give up.

[Wazza]

Awesome advice guys, thanks appreciate it.
Would love an offline job not just for money but to get back into a routine of sleep, away time from the net and away time from the fam(always wanted to spend more time with the fam but all day everyday is way to much lol). Going to have to move towns to find work though - there just is nothing here for me, unless I go fruit picking which I can't.

I am not giving you a lesson, telling you shit, or bossing you around - but we all know the web isn't going anywhere, and we all know how easy it is to lose a day sat in front of the computer, building blogs, writing articles, shooting E-mails, browsing forums and doing SEO that we sometimes forget about what is offline, our loved ones and how fast are kids are growing up.

So true willyboy, the net isn't going anywhere and I definitely need to take a break to get out of this routine - a good solid month off would be awesome away from every day tech, camping, fishing, travelling to find nice place to work/live.

Also pretty confident is was a fluke, no sales since but I have made sales with this mob in the past + been paid from them so that's a bonus, just hoping I dont get email saying - sorry but there was an error in our system.

LOLZ Vadym my 7 year old felt sorry for the ducky

[kakaboo]

Maybe you could set out a plan for your schedule so that you might be a bit obliged to follow it.. (although I know most of us probably never follow schedules..)

Like maybe promise yourself only to use the computer during normal working hours (9 to 5) and then in the evening spend time with your wife or kids or work out.

[Wazza]

Yeh it's a good idea but I've tried it lol, it was like telling homer not to eat pie -

[RMiller]

It will all come when the time is right. Spend some more time with the family and get things organized in-house then pop up with the best gift ever: bein able to take a vacation to wherever the family wants to go and show them it was paid from u being involved in the IM world. Best of luck to ya

[Blackman]

It will all come when the time is right.

Strangely, I believe in this too. As long as you keep trying, moving forward, ONE DAY you'll be whoever you want to be.

My current wallpaper:

[NCMedia]

Agreed ^

Could be if you hit BIG success right now it might be premature, as fuct as that sounds.

I strongly believe in our disclaimers last few words:

Work hard, don't be stupid. < There are cool wallpapers with that saying (which is where I picked it up) and it seems so basic and 'yeah whatever' but holds so much truth that it is undeniable.

Keep doing only successful things (keep practicing things to know what is successful) and it's just averaging and probability at work as well as timing. The more often you are doing only successful things the less often you are being stupid, and probably the harder you're working because IT is working and you want more of that feeling/realization coming true.

Also find the visualization (like obsessive repetitive) until the formula is polished in your head (i.e. I want my first million from this, it's already x way there, or I want to lose weight I'm already x way there) tends to make you actualize it that much more. At least shit-talkers get some of their shit talking done vs those that use terms like "I should do this" "I COULD do that, but..." - The MOMENT that those particles in your brain are firing up a storm and you know it's good, fuck the COULD/SHOULD - just DO. I find the DO is the killer move that separates everyone - DO more, FAIL more, ELIMINATE STUPID more, you're that much closer vs the sideliners. And wazza you're definitely a DO'er, so back to the point, timing may not be on your side, but what you are practicing is, and you know this (you work hard, you're not stoopid, timing and probability will set you free one day based on those variables matched with what you practice vs what you beat a dead horse with (like you're clearing shop right now to start fresh/break - good move).

Rambling, long day, hope you're doin' betta.
N.

PS: I'm a talented guy, been told since I was 6 "KID, You're gonna be a very successful person someday" then "Wow at your art/music, you're going to make it HUGE one day, just watch".... Hearing it until I was 30 to finally taste it now has been a BITCHHHHHHHHHHH - but it's ripe and I had it before when I was younger/not ready (big fail lost it all - thank god I dontHazKids-wink), I'm glad I'm ready this time. Take from that what you will - waiting sucks but in the meantime keep motoring, in that smart efficient way if you must vs all or nothin for now.

[leftboot]

I think I'm actually going to put this one up on the board at work. So much drama there sometimes, it's silly that some people seem incapable of these 2 things.

I'm trying to find a "Work Hard & Don't Be Stupid" poster (for myself) but no luck so far. I'm not ashamed to admit I could use a poster like that sometimes.

Wazaa, I don't have too much to say to you other than... I think it's really good that you are wiping the slate clean. Take a step back, reconnect with the family, give your brain a break, loosen things up a bit, de-pressurize, get some shit sorted/balanced and then (if you can) come back at this with a much clearer and relaxed state of mind.

Much love yo
lb.

[Blackman]

Here, it's a bit of an eye-fuck, but says what you want lol

[ScottS]

"Just keep swimming-just keep swimming"

Sorry, I know it's cheesy but I am going to follow that advice and I hope that everyone else does too.

Good luck.