Missed my boyz wedding - fcuuuuuuuuk

[NCMedia]

I have no idea why here, but I gotta tell someone

I just came back from a facking horrible day (well it ended ok but I made an absolute fack of myself - watch this).

So I get invited to my boyz wedding (finally after being with his girl for eons), this was 3 months ago (the invite). So today is the big day, I got ready, got my hair did, suit pressed, new shades... i looked (and smelled) PIMP!! So I get there, and the parking lot is empty. I double check the invitation, yep, right place, right time.

A bit lost, I fumble around the area for a bit - decide to phone some people - nobody answers... Get back in the bimmer, look at the invite again closely, read line by line... all seems in check - oh wait - except for one smally thing...

I compared the dates from the invite to the date on my phone and it hit me like a brick to my head - IT WAS YESTERDAY!!! FAAAAAAAACK!!! I just drove 2hrs to attend an event from yesterday, present and date in hand, biggest Polak moment of my life - epic phailllll x infinity.... NO CLUE why but I marked it as the Sunday in my calender when I got the invite...

I phone my buddy to apolagize profusely while beat red from humiliation (he was one of my first friends in Canada when I was like 4 yrs old) - sigh...

Luckily, he didn't leave on his honeymoon just yet, and was hosting a bbq at his new house - so with my head down, I pull up to his driveway a few hours later, sweating, nervous, and feeling pretty facking lame! Backyard full of people, tunes, beers, trees... I had to stop the party, introduce myself, apolagize publically, explain what/how/and ask for forgiveness, and thus explain why I'm still wearing formal wedding gear while everyone else is in shorts/no tees/bbq mode...

Good people - my boy forgived me after a heart to heart, and I am forever in debt to him now willingly... Such a big moment for him and I facking missed it sigh again. The respect to show up there today in full gear, to a lil' speech/announcement to a big crew spur of the moment, and even sing a lil' to make an ass of myself even more (and to get some forgiveness points) was a good wake-up call to what you can make yourself do when under pressure...

There was one thing my mom asked me before I went to this thing today (she knows him from a 4yr old boy too), my response: "I hope I don't catch nothing..." I always end up catching the damn garder (sp?), and or it is thrown at me - so I didn't want it - and what do you know, my wish was more than granted

/shameless shame

[Vadym]

Oh goodness, that's awful. I'm glad your buddy forgave you, sounds like a stand up guy.

I've had a couple of epic fails like that, and now each monday morning at breakfast, I look through my blackberry for ALL the important [not daily] events for the week.

And don't worry about it too much. I mean, the dude just got married to the love of his life. You not coming is.. a slight damper, at most.

[Blackman]

Kurwa how could you do that but don't worry

sh!t happens....It's good that your friend accepted the apologies.

Take it easy! Life is still going on

[bunch]

I think everyone there understood what happened to you, I always say it's better to show up late than not at all.

[mikey1090]

Overdressed

Better late than never buddy. Its the kind of thing i'd do, me being dosy like that

[hornetss]

Get him a 6 pack of bud light and he will be fine
Joking
Yea, he is going to be really happy that he just got married, so he wont hold it agaiinst you or anything

[addzone]

Shit happens, if your bro is a cool guy I am sure you will laugh about it in the future. He will have been concentrating on the wedding anyway. A lot of ass kissing is needed though.